Therapy for when life feels like too much

(especially if you’ve always felt too much yourself.)

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For the tender, the tangled, and the tired

For Neurodivergent Folks

So far, you've survived every single day.

In a world that often misunderstands us, therapy should feel like a space where you don’t have to mask or translate.

Here, you can unmask, unpack, and unlearn at your own pace.
We don’t believe you need fixing — we believe you deserve understanding, care, and room to breathe.

Whether you're autistic, ADHD, highly sensitive, or simply feeling out of step, we’re here to support you in making sense of it all — and in finding ways to thrive as your real, whole self.

For Queer Folks

You’ve carried so much just to be who you are.


In a world that too often demands shrinking, explaining, or hiding, therapy should feel like a place where your full self is safe to show up.

Here, there’s no need to  tone it down.
We honour queerness in all its forms — as identity, as culture, as resistance, as joy.

Whether you're exploring gender or sexuality, healing from harm, navigating messy relationships, or just craving a space where you don’t have to justify your existence — bring it!

We offer therapy that’s affirming, trauma-aware, and rooted in intersectional & anti-oppressive beliefs. 

For survivors (of all kinds)

Surviving can shape everything — how you think, feel, relate, and move through the world.


Whether your trauma is named or unnamed, recent or long past, this is a space where you don’t have to explain it all to be believed, supported, or understood.

We work gently, at your pace, with your nervous system in mind.
There’s no pressure to retell your story — just an open invitation to begin healing, in whatever way feels right to you.

Your survival is a testament to your strength.
Now, let’s make room for safety, softness, and something more than just getting by.

For partners, polycules, and chosen connections

Love doesn’t come with a universal manual 


Whether you’re partnered, poly, monogam-ish, co-parenting, long-distance, or somewhere beautifully undefined, we offer a space where your relationships can be seen, supported, and strengthened.

We work with couples, triads, polycules, and chosen families navigating communication, conflict, intimacy, boundaries, identity, and care — all through a lens that’s queer-affirming, neurodivergent-aware, and nonjudgmental.

This is therapy for people building love their way.
Let’s make space for repair, reconnection, and the relationships you actually want to be in.

For Spiritual Folks (& the Spiritually Tender)

Religion can leave deep wounds — especially when it’s used to control, shame, or erase.


If you're carrying pain from a faith tradition, disentangling from harmful beliefs, or saying “I just can’t do this anymore,” you don’t have to process it in silence.

This is a space where you can grieve, unpack, rage, question, and heal from spiritual harm — at your pace, on your terms. We never push or provoke, but if faith or religion is something you want to explore in therapy, we’re here for that conversation.

You don’t have to believe anything to belong here. And if you do hold spiritual or religious beliefs — especially ones you’re reimagining or reclaiming — those are welcome, too.

This work is tender. It’s messy. It’s sacred in its own way.

For the anxious, the down, and the done-with-it

Some days, just getting through is the win.


If you’re feeling tender, tired, overwhelmed, or like you’re quietly struggling while the rest of the world seems to be sprinting — we get it!

We offer therapy for folks living with anxiety, depression, burnout, or just a lingering sense that everything is a lot.
Maybe you don’t have a neat label for what’s going on — just the deep knowing that you can’t keep doing it like this.

This is a space for the under-supported, the over-functioning, and the ones who are so good at holding it together on the outside.

You don’t have to keep white-knuckling it. Let’s figure out something gentler — together.

feeling stuck? try this prompt generator! a great contemplation, perfect for finding journal flow!

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Fried. Flat. & Feral.

This therapy group is for autistic and AuDHD adults (formally diagnosed or self-identified) who are deep in burnout or clawing their way out of it. You might be masking so hard you forget who you are. You might be exhausted by the pressure to “function.” You might be... fried, flat, and a little feral. Or maybe you've been to burnout and back without any knowledge about how you ever came up for air and want supports in place around returning to that hellscape. Also? You quite possibly feel headed towards burnout, but don't recognize it as that (yet). 

 

Led by me, JL Seeley RP, This space is here to help you find your way back to yourself -> gently & in community, and with the support of The Autistic Burnout Workbook by Dr. Megan Anna Neff as our guide.

Over 8 weeks, we’ll slow down together and explore what burnout means in autistic lives, how to recognize your edges before you hit the wall, and how to rebuild rhythms that honour your brain and body.

You don’t need to be “in a good place.” You don’t need to talk every week (or at all, for that matter. Yeah, you read that right) You don’t need to be anyone but exactly who you are.

This group is powered by low spoons and high insight.

Bring your masks, your tangents, your silence, your side-eyes. We’ll be in it all together. Click the I'm Ready button if you want to be taken to the page where you can sign up! 

I'm Ready!

But JL, What IS Autistic Burnout — and how do I know if it’s me?

Autistic burnout is a state of intense physical, mental, or emotional exhaustion often accompanied by a loss of skills, increased sensory sensitivity, and difficulty with executive function or communication. It’s not just "regular" burnout from work or stress.

it’s deeper, longer-lasting, and tied to the sustained effort of masking, people-pleasing, pushing through overwhelm, or navigating an inaccessible world.

You don’t have to be formally diagnosed to experience autistic burnout. You might recognize it if:

  • You’re more easily overwhelmed by things you used to manage
  • Tasks that once felt automatic now feel impossible
  • You're exhausted even after rest (if you can even access rest)
  • You feel emotionally numb, shut down, or like you're “not yourself”
  • You find it harder to speak, advocate for yourself, or stay regulated
  • You’re craving solitude, sensory relief, or to just be left alone

If you’ve been wondering, “Is it burnout or am I just broken?” it might be this.

And no, you’re absolutely not broken. 

Here's an image that I've been carrying around with me for a long time, by the creator @ActuallyAutisticAlien. I've found this to be an incredibly helpful visual to start the conversation with clients who aren't entirely sure what's going on (when it might be burnout) 

Enough of all of that, here's what you came for. The Details!

Up to 8 Autistic/AuDHD adults will meet weekly for 2 hours at a time over 8 weeks. Next group starts up October 20th, 2026. Meeting Tuesday afternoons from 2-4 Eastern Time. 

We will meet virtually on Zoom where you'll get:

  • weekly community
  • gentle structure
  • permission to not fix or figure it all out right away
  • shared reflection
  • space to move at the pace of your nervous system
  • therapeutic guidance
  • validation
  • support in gaining new skills
  • resources and reference materials
  • and so much more*

*it's finally happening! an online community dedicated to all sorts of things we Neurodivergent folks wonder about, talk about, feel big things about - from burnout to special interests to executive function and more. Participants in burnout groups will be invited to this community at no additional cost. More about that here. 

Recognizing that therapy and therapeutic groups are a privilege and understanding that we don't all have the same access to resources, this group is made available at three different rates. You choose which you would like to pay, with no questions asked or proof of income needed. 

Still have unanswered questions? Reach out via my contact form here.  

Want to be kept in the loop and ensure your spot? Or perhaps just wanting to stay informed on similar offerings -->> Let me know here! 

But JL! What if I've already done the group and want MORE? 

Well, you can definitely come back for another round if you believe it will benefit you. But also? you might get something out of joining us for Fried Fridays: a drop in for folks who've done the 8 week group and want to remain on track and in connection with others who get it. Click the image for more!

Approachably nerdy. Fiercely affirming. Built for complexity.

JL Seeley (They/Them)

Therapy with JL is a little like a cozy couch chat -> with structure, support, and the occasional gentle nudge. They don’t believe in one-size-fits-all solutions, because let’s be real: you’re not a spreadsheet, and healing isn’t linear.

JL is a registered psychotherapist and supervisor with a deep commitment to making therapy a place where you don’t have to explain the unexplainable ... because they already get it.

Their work is grounded in the belief that neurodivergence isn’t something to fix or erase. It’s something to explore, understand, and honour. JL brings years of experience working with autistic, ADHD, and otherwise neurodivergent adults who’ve spent a lifetime navigating a world that wasn’t built for them. They offer a space where unmasking is welcome, stimming is sacred, and showing up exactly as you are is more than enough.

Gently and collaboratively, JL supports clients in untangling internalized messages, reconnecting with their own sense of self, and building lives that actually feel livable. Their practice is informed by lived experience, anti-oppressive frameworks, and a whole lot of respect for the courage it takes to begin this work.

Also? You don’t have to identify as neurodivergent to work with JLS Therapy.  Many of their clients simply crave a space that’s affirming, curious, and able to hold complexity. That’s what they're here for.

JL values unmasking, untangling, and reimagining, (at your pace), AND identifying when it's even safe to do those things. Whether you’re navigating identity, burnout, grief, relationships, chronic pain, or just trying to make life feel a little less overwhelming, JL can be in your corner.

Come as you are. We’ll make sense of things together. 

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